Supportive Coaching

The deception, justification, minimizing and utter lack of empathy on the addict's part often compounds the betrayals exponentially. This causes many partners to shut down, isolate and fall into paralyzing pain with so many unanswered questions: How could he have done this to me? Will the pain and anger ever go away? What have I done wrong? What can I do to change the situation?

But isolating due to our shame, fear, depression or anxiety only exacerbates the pain, confusion and loneliness we may be feeling. We've been there, too. We thought if we could just stay busy enough, or numb ourselves out, eventually we'd wake up and the nightmare would be over. And sadly, we also thought that telling the Sex Addict/Compulsive (SAC) about our pain would be powerful enough to affect his behavior. We discovered none of this was true and we felt bereft. But we learned ways through the darkness and we reach out now to guide and support you, sharing our empathy, understanding and knowledge of sex addiction in a gentle and safe manner. Together, we will create a safe space for you to explore and implement (when you are ready) whatever you next need, even if you're not at all sure what that is.
There are two things you can be assured of in this time of uncertainty: that there is a way through this—and that you do not have to do this alone!
Give yourself the gift of being companioned through this difficult time with a PoSA coach already well familiar with the challenges sexual compulsion ushers in. Click here to learn more about how Lili and Terre stand ready to help you via personal PoSA Coaching.
Take our hand and let us guide you to the hope and healing we have found.
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